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Trauma & EMDR

Trauma and EMDR Therapy in Southampton, NY

By Happy Pro, Counseling Team · May 29, 2026 · 2 min read

Trauma is not only what happened. It is what your nervous system did with it. EMDR and other trauma therapies finish the processing the brain got stuck on, at a pace you stay in control of.

Southampton sits at the western edge of the East End: a Village of about 4,000 year-round residents that swells in the summer, a mix of working families along the Tuckahoe and North Sea roads and a more affluent population closer to the ocean. Most of the people we see in Southampton are not the summer crowd. They are local: teachers, hospital staff at Stony Brook Southampton, contractors, restaurant managers, retirees, and parents whose kids go to Tuckahoe or Southampton schools.

How trauma and emdr therapy works here

Our Clinical Director is EMDR-trained. EMDR uses a structured eight-phase protocol with bilateral stimulation while you hold a target memory or image in mind; you do not have to retell every detail. For trauma that needs other approaches first, we draw on trauma-focused CBT, cognitive processing therapy, and somatic work in a paced way.

What it costs

Practically: most insurance plans common to Southampton residents are commercial PPOs through Long Island employers (school district plans, the hospital, county government, trades unions). We are in network with most of the big names; we verify before your first session. With most in-network plans (Aetna, Cigna, UnitedHealthcare, Oxford, Northwell Direct), the typical out-of-pocket cost is between $0 and $40 per session, depending on your specific plan. Coverage may vary; we check your specific benefits in writing before your first session at no cost. Send your insurance information here.

If we are not in network with your plan, you may still have out-of-network benefits that reimburse a portion. See the payment options page for the Mentaya tool to check that quickly. Self-pay rates are listed there too.

Same-week openings, most weeks

We hold intake capacity so most weeks we can get you in within days, not months. Sessions are in person at our Long Island office or by secure video anywhere in New York State.

How to start

Three options:

For more on the clinical side and the approaches we use, see the full trauma and EMDR guide.

Common questions

Frequently asked.

Do I have to talk about what happened in detail?
No. EMDR does not require detailed narrative. A short thumbnail is usually enough for the therapist to plan with you. You stay in control of how much you share.
Can EMDR work over telehealth?
Yes. Trained EMDR therapists use validated remote tools for bilateral stimulation. Outcomes are comparable to in-person for many adults.

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